We’ve Analyzed 27,853 Handwritings So Far, Here’s What We Learned | Graphologist-Handwriting Analyst S.Sulianah | Grapholistic International

I had the opportunities to analyze handwritings for the past 24 years of close encounters, friends, family members, strangers, clients, interview candidates and employees. In which, all of them were from different backgrounds.

The best part?

None of any of these handwritings is the same. Not even one in comparison to another. 

In short: if you want to know more about what I had learnt from analyzing handwritings, you will enjoy reading this.

Let’s get started.

When I analyzed group of friends mainly in events such as employees' retreat, product launch, campaigns, it is like similar attracts similar. For instance, if that one friend has a trait that shows a positive mindset, the other three will too. And if not, based on my observation, that one person will stand out in a way that he or she seems like do not fit in the group. 

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​When I analyzed handwritings in events, I gained motivation and positive energy from the crowds. Usually individuals are curious of how their handwriting could tell about their personality. There were those who came for the event just to get their handwriting analyzed. I can say 9 out of 10 will be so open to know more about themselves. Only a handful will not be comfortable getting their handwriting analysed especially in front of their friends, spouse or family members.

Individuals are also usually more intrigued if they realized that by changing their handwriting, they could improve on a specific trait. These traits are usually something that might hinder them from moving forward, such as fear to move forward, not confident or overthinking. So, the value of any analysis will be when I shared with them how they could improve themselves with Graphotherapy. This will be as simple as altering the size of their signature. 

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There will be times that I will meet with individuals who are open to get their handwritings analyzed even when they  had built a wall of defense around them. It was invisible but with experiences and exposure as an analyst, I could personally feel as if I am in their shoes. They will appear uncomfortable or seems defensive to listen to what I would like to share with them. Case by case basis I will mellow down the atmosphere by sharing their positive sides first. On the other hand, I will conditioned the way I speak and approach the situations depending on the traits that I had observed on their handwriting. These traits might or might not be the reason for them acting that way. It could be their inclination to be secretive, denial or sometimes ego. And all the time, after that they will changed their composure. They will start to smile and release their breath that they have been holding since the beginning. This will be when they will be more open to talk about themselves too.

Personality reflected on handwritings are usually a copy of how the individuals portray themselves through their physical appearance, the way they expressed themselves, the way they speak, their thought process and the perception they have towards themselves. So, most of the time it is subconscious and an automatic response. For example, I remembered analyzing an individual who has 'pirate hooks' on his lower loops such as on his y's and g's. I noticed that he clings his partner to himself even when she slightly moved away from him for a second. Another example is a handwriting of a business owner in his 60s. He has a balance upper, middle and lower zones. I can still remember how he looks because it is rare to meet someone with a fresh outlook, confident composure and accomplished with self-worth.​

How to Match Your Character as a Consultant with Your Client's Personality?

1. If you are working with people whatever your profession is, learn to customize the way you speak to individuals. Observe their character and body language. By doing so, it is a good way to build rapport and trust. This will make the other person feels comfortable and be open to share more during the sessions. Their response and feedback are essential as we need to know whether they are accurate and match in theory and practical. 
   
   
2. Listen. Sometimes there is no need to ask any further questions. People just need to express themselves and usually once they feel comfortable especially when we know intricate details like how they think and all, they will be more open to share with us, anything. When I said anything it means anything including the brand of wifi routers they are using. And most of the time, the information they shared are more than what they might had shared with their friends or family members.
   
   
3. And if time is limited, find ways to shorten the session especially if it is an event with large crowds forming a beeline to meet you. Do not cut their conversation which could seem disrespectful. Use your eyes and own body language to tell them that we need to cut this short if words may sound uncomfortably impolite.
   
   
4. Remember that they will talk about their experience with their friends and fellow mates. As for me, usually I will be natural and genuine when talking to any of the individuals I had analysed their handwriting. That is why passion with the field of your work has to be one of the important reasons you are in any line of work you are doing right now. Humans are fragile. They have been through challenges and various paths that may be a demanding for them. So if they are getting their personality analyzed like in my case, it is like a self-assurance for them. Most of the time they intend to use it to make their life better. Be nice and respectful to each and every individuals you attend to.
   
   
5. There were times that guests/individuals/clients will email me after the formal events or personal analysis to ask more questions or follow-up on how they can understand themselves more. Or feedback like, "Now I know why my grandma said I looked like I am not interested in playing the piano." Based on these, I would know how assurances and encouragement could impact a person's life. Also, if you have nothing good to say or if the analysis you found is at the negative spectrum, as a consultant learn to make sure that your words are not hurtful.
   
   
6. Usually doesn’t mean that the person is in a higher position they do not need any assurance from others to tell them something nice about their skills and capabilities. Over the years, their journey could be tiresome and they might have forgotten to focus on themselves. Tiredness, disappointments or any other shortcomings might make them fragile which could be shown on their handwriting . With that, you have to handle it with care. 
   
   
7. One final point I learnt that I could apply naturally in this profession is being trustworthy. I am used to keeping others’ secrets that they shared with me, so in cases like these like not to divulge individuals’ characters and personality, I will usually keep it highly confidential and private. As a consultant, you have to own this character in you and if you don't work on it.

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Author: S.Sulianah 
S.Sulianah is also a ​Graphologist, HR and Management Consultant (Personality Assessment and Development) and Founder of Grapholistic International

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